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  • Revd David warmly welcomes you to the parish church.

    Thursday 21st January


    Jesus said, ‘I am the light of the world. Whoever follows me will never walk in darkness but will have the light of life.’  (John 8.12)

    Daily Reflection

    Where does a national leader find guiding light? American Presidents lead a nation whose motto used to be ‘From many, one’ but in the 1950s was changed to ‘In God we trust’. Unity under the star-spangled banner remains an ideal which poses an immense challenge to the new President. Leaders of vibrant Christian churches all over the world also continue to search for unity (this is the Week of Prayer for Christian Unity) but face difficulty in reconciling conflicting principles.

    Each one of us has to look for light in darkness and each day choose our path in that light. ‘God is love’ - where will love take us?

    David Harmsworth


    If you would like a chat or some prayer time in church, Revd Ylva or Revd David will be at St George’s, Benenden and at The Mission Church, Sandhurst as follows on Monday and Tuesday this week and next week:

    Revd David is at St. George's from 10-11am, and at the Mission Church from 2-3pm

    Revd Ylva is at the Mission CHurch from 10-11am, and at St. George's from 2-3pm


    Coronavirus (COVID-19) guidance for churches

    Last updated: Wednesday 6th January

    Our churches remain open for individual private prayer; but communal worship will move on-line.

    The Prime Minister made an announcement on the 4th January regarding England going into lockdown until at least mid-February but, surprisingly, places of worship being able to stay open for public worship as well as individual private prayer.

    I have been in discussion with the Churchwardens of both parishes about this, and we - regrettably - have significant reservations about remaining open for public worship with the new, virulent strain of the Covid virus; these are as follows:

    - The majority of our congregations are in a vulnerable category either through age or because of other underlying health conditions

    - We are close to receiving the vaccine (probably over the course of the next 2-3 months)

    - We have a duty of care for our congregations, for those "on duty" at services, for our parishioners, for our families and for ourselves

    - The Ministry Leadership Team have reservations, for personal reasons, about their availability to lead/preach at live services; we therefore have a much depleted team to call upon

    - We feel it is more sensible to reduce the risks for everyone by having on-line services rather than live public worship.

    These reservations have been put to the two Standing Committees who have agreed, with heavy hearts, that with immediate effect we suspend public worship in the three churches in the benefice until the lockdown it ended. (We will review this mid-February; with the possibility of commencing public worship again from the end of February.) Bishop Rose and Archdeacon Andrew have been informed of this decision.


    - We will record a service and make it available, on-line, every Sunday morning (and reintroduce the time of fellowship, with coffee, on Zoom after the service)

    - The parish churches remain open for individual private prayer seven days a week

    - St. George's church will be heated for two one-hour periods every day (10-11am and 2-3pm) so that the church is more comfortable if people wish to make use of the space for private prayer. Revd Ylva and I will diary some of our time to be at St. George's Church and at the Mission Church if you wish to meet and talk

    As this situation is going on far longer than any of us had imaged:

    - We will look at arranging a form of on-line, weekly Bible Study; a sort of “on-line Home Group”. This will be available, on Zoom, to anyone who wishes to join in for Christian fellowship in this way. Watch this space!

    - We will also review and update the on-line resources that are available on the church websites.


    I know this will be of considerable disappointment to some. We are not taking this action lightly. Please remember that there will also be others who hold passionately to the view, “It’s about time services in church stopped!” The virus is serious; the country is in lockdown to try and break the spread of the virus. We need, as the local church, to be part of helping with that break so that – along with the vaccine – we can all get back to a more normal life sooner rather than later.

    Please continue to look after yourself. If you want to talk, please pick up the phone and call.

    God bless.

    Revd David


    If you come into church for private prayer please remember: "Hands. Face. Space......and no "mingling"!

    Please hand sanitise on entry and exit. Wear a face covering. And maintain 2m social distancing from others not in your household or social bubble at all times....even after the service as you leave....."No mingling!"

    And, please, you MUST NOT come to church if you have Covid-19 symptoms, or have been told to self-isolate.

    We follow the guidelines issued by the Church of England. If you wish to read these in full, they are available here.

    There are prayer resources available as you come into church. (Please take them away with you when you leave if you use them.) If you wish to read some scripture when you come to church for private prayer, please bring your Bible with you.

    Keep safe. Keep well. Keep praying. And God bless you.

    Revd David

    RESOURCES for prayer, bible reading and reflection

    Revd David Commander, Rector   01580 240658    revdavidcommander@gmail.com

    Church and community help and information during Coronavirus pandemic


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    Church of England website


  • “Services” and Prayer:

    Please make use of the beautiful quiet space in St. George's Church any day for individual private prayer; prayer resources are available. If there is something particular you would like prayer for, please send me an email or give me a call.

    Services in January and February:

    No communal public worship services live in church during the lockdown.
    Services will be available on-line, from 8 o'clock Sunday morning.



    “Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength . . . Love your neighbour as yourself. There is no commandment greater than these.” (Mark 12:30-31)
    Now is still a time to care for your neighbour. Please, pick up the phone, speak to them. We are a strong community, a caring community. Together we are getting through this.

    Finally, I encourage you to use these prayers when you get up and when you go to bed:

    A prayer in the morning:

    Lord Jesus Christ, you said to your disciples, ‘I am with you always’. Be with me today, as I offer myself to you. Hear my prayers for others and for myself, and keep me in your care. Amen.

    A prayer in the evening:

    God our Father, by whose mercy the world turns safely into darkness and returns again to light,:we place in your hands our unfinished tasks, our unsolved problems, and our unfulfilled hopes, knowing that only what you bless will prosper. To your love and protection we commit each other and all those we love, knowing that you alone are our sure defender, through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.

    Keep safe. Keep well. Keep praying. God bless you. With love, David


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